Week 3 of 52: A Challenge to Pray

IMG_1041A friend of mine recently made a comment to me that blew my mind. We were talking about depth in relationships, and how it is easy to create surface level friendships, but it is often difficult to go deep, especially as guys. We tend to keep to topics that show that we care, without forcing depth. The comment, which I don’t want to misquote, but probably will, went like this, “if you want deep friendships, you need to have deep prayer for your friends.”

BOOM, mind blown, I should probably stop here!

How often do you pray for your friends? More specifically, how often do you pray for deeper relationships with your friends? How about deeper community with your family, or those you work with? How often do you pray for those things?

In my journey to find deeper community at LCC Redding, I am reminded by this conversation that we must pray specifically for depth in relationships. As I dream, and strategize how to move “numbers” to “people” in the body, we must do so with a heart of prayer, a heart praying specifically for depth, for walls to come down. We must take time out of our day to pray for connections that point toward Jesus Christ.

This post is a short one, but to me a heavy one.

I want to move this conversation I had with a friend to be a challenge for you. Are you praying for those in your life? Are you praying for deeper connections? Are you praying for healing in relationships? I want to challenge you to pray!

It’s amazing what God will do, when you simply ask.


Week 2 of 52: Sitting in a Coffee Shop

If you know me, you know that I don’t do well in a room by myself. When taking the Meyer’s Briggs personality profile, when it came to extrovert, I received a score of 100%. I was never a straight A students, so this number was just as much a surprise to me as it may be to you.

I realize a test does not determine who I am, and in no way will I stay confined to what Mr. Meyer’s and Mr. Briggs describe me as, but this is a glimpse of how important people are to my life. Even a test knows that I need people to stay energized, to stay motivated.

As I sit in a coffee shop in Shasta Lake City, watching as a grown man walks the streets in a  bunny costume, yeah, that’s a real thing, I am reminded of how if I am able to score 100% extrovert, some other person is capable of scoring 100% introvert.

If I am on one extreme of the extrovert introvert spectrum, there must be some crazy amount of combinations in between. This is just one aspect of who I am, of who we are as people. My favorite color is blue, yours might be red. I love hamburgers, you may like hot dogs. I like coffee, you may enjoy a cup full of earl grey tea. There are so many details that determine our make up, determine what makes us happy, and what makes usmike-wilson-223615 sad.
As I sit in a coffee shop in Shasta lake city, sipping my coffee I am reminded how diffe
rent we all are, and how important it is to not shy
away from differences, but to embrace
them, to find out a person’s story, finding out what makes them the person they are. In
community we must not surround ourselves with people who think and act exactly how we do, always agreeing with what we have to say but instead it is important that we embrace those that challenge our thoughts, driving us deeper into scripture, deeper into God’s word.

I had a friend in college who demonstrated this idea to me. We always joked that he could make an argument out of nothing. I remember times that he even disagreed with h
is argument, but it was important to him that we look at all angles. This friend always challenged the norm, he challenged the way we thought. At first this was frustrating, I didn’t get why he always had to have an opinion, I didn’t get that it was okay to not agree. Over time these arguments helped me realize that we aren’t always going to see eye to eye. It challenged me to discover why I thought the way I did, it made me dig deeper, it made me have a defense for my beliefs. I no longer was able to blindly believe, but instead, I grew in my relationship with God, I read His word, I spent hours praying for guidance, I started understanding what I was raised to believe, and this life I was living became everything to me. It was in our differences that we were both able to grow.

Ephesians 4 talks about walking worthy of the calling. We were called to one body, one faith, one Father and God of all. Our job is to take this walk together, in unity, we are one body, one church. We may worship different, we may be hand raisers, we may not be able to clap in rhythm. There is one way to heaven and that is through Jesus Christ, instead of tearing other believers and other Christ following church’s down, let’s walk in unity, challenging each other to dig deeper into the Word of God, so that we can know Him more personally, more intimately.

These difference are what make the body, our thumb cannot replace the function of our nose, just as my role in the Kingdom is no more or less significant than a person who travels the world sharing the word of God. We were all created with purpose, may we choose to grow in these differences us, challenging each other to go deeper.

As I sit in a coffee shop in Shasta Lake City, I am encouraged to know we will not always have the answers, but we will have the answer. I am encouraged that I serve a God who desires to know me personally. I look forward in anticipation to see how He works in my life, and my prayer is that this post challenges you to be stretched, that it encourages conversation, and that through it you may be challenged to seek God in a way you have not before.

1-of-52: Living in Community

IMG_0774I read in an article last week that one of the main reasons that a young Christian leader gets burned out is because they don’t have an outside community speaking into their life. Two years ago I would have seen this and put it in the “maybe I will need this one day” category of my filing cabinet and then never looked at it again. Now I look at this article and am blown away by the idea.
As I have stepped into my role as Community Life Coordinator at LCC Redding, I have realized more and more how crucial community is to life as a follower of Christ. The idea of walking through life with a group of believers who, in their own way, are trying to just get by.
Community isn’t just a weekly list of highs and lows, it isn’t a cup of coffee as we laugh about the awkward moments of walking into walls (I have learned I am really clumsy this past year) though those can be a part of it. It’s about going deep, having real conversations, sharing real struggles, and taking down the walls that we have up in our own lives. Community is real life with real people.
As I am studying this idea of community within the church body, dreaming up ideas about small groups, deeper discipleship and events that promote community, I have realized how I have been going about it in all the wrong ways.
At this point in my life I have been in 17 weddings as a groomsman. 17 tuxes, 17 walks down the isle, 17 rehearsal dinners, 17 receptions. Friendships are there, I am not lacking in friends, but what I am realizing is, though I love each one of these friends, and family members, the deeper side of friendship is lacking. I have taken these friendships for granted, they mean the world to me, but I haven’t let it go past that surface level. There may be a time or two that I start to go deeper, but the walls inside me go up as soon as it goes too far.
As I read this article, and I am reminded of how God created us. God didn’t want Adam to walk this earth alone, so he created Eve (Gen 2:20-22). God in the Garden of Eden created companionship, friendship, relationship. God allowed in that moment for Adam to have someone to share all of who he was with. In the same way God does not want us doing life on our own, He has created community for each one of us.

Hebrews 10:24-25

“And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.”
God did not create us to walk the streets of our town surrounded by people, all while carrying the weight of our world on our shoulders. He created community, people surrounding us to take on this weight, to share our burdens, to cry with us and laugh with us. He created community so that we don’t have to stay in the shallow end of the pool, we can take off our life jacket and dive on in.

As I walk forward in my roll of Community Life Coordinator at LCC Redding, I am reminded of the community God has placed me in. The friends who are my family, and my family that have become my friends. I am thankful to have friends who know me so well, they no what I say when I have a lot on my heart. I am excited to the body at LCC and encourage those who are in hopeless situations that there is Hope in Jesus, they aren’t alone, and He who created the earth, created a community for them to walk in.
I am in the process of learning what community looks like in my own life. I am realizing that I can’t just stay shallow, but I have to go deep. I must pursue strategic community, those people who I can do life with, going through the trenches of what ever comes up in this adventure we call life. In this community I cannot hold up walls, but remain vulnerable, realizing that it is in the moment’s that we try to do things on our own, we are keeping the body of Christ from working.
I want to encourage you, if you have read this far, don’t try and do life on your own. Get plugged in, find a home fellowship, ask a pastor or another leader at your church. Realize that by holding the world by yourself you are not allowing those around you to fully embrace what God has for them, and you are not allowing God to use you how He plans for you to be used.

Why Now?

Why now? This is the question that has been tormenting me the past few days as I look forward to writing this blog.

I am writing this blog for a few reasons. First I feel that God has given me a message to share, one that until recently I have kept to myself. A message of hope, a message that can only be found in the words, and in the truth of Jesus Christ. Second I have a dream to write, a dream to share my experiences in life and in ministry. I have ideas for a couple books, but have had difficulties taking time to sit, stay, and write. This is a step toward that. Thirdly, it takes time for me to process, I am what you could call a verbal processor. I need to write down what is going through my head, so that it makes sense to myself. This blog is hopefully going to keep me accountable to write what God is doing in my life. Lastly, I am horrible at keeping in contact with those that I hold dear to me. My hope is that this will help show a glimpse of my life to those who I call friends and family.

There are a couple area’s that I want to focus on in this blog.

  1. Life through the eyes of an extrovert.
  2. Creating Community.
  3. Hope in Jesus Christ.

Each category is so important to who I am as a person. I strive to bring people into community centered on Jesus Christ. I strive to see people loved well, and I pray to see restoration come through Jesus in the lives I get to do life with.

This will be a process, my writing won’t be perfect, but I pray you will be encouraged.

Why now? I am realizing more and more how short this thing called life really is. Over the past year I have seen countless lives lost, family, friends, acquaintances. Some of these people knew the hope found in Jesus, some did not. The reason for the now, is that we don’t know what our future hold’s, all I know is that I feel like God is wanting me to write, and who am I to tell Him no.

My commitment is to 1 year. 1 post a week (We will see how that goes in Camp season.) You can read, you can share, you can ignore, you can critique, but I will walk in obedience.

You will be seeing post 1 of 52 next Monday.

Peace and blessings to you,

Adam Elledge